Videos

March 16, 2023

Why am I not ready to change?

Wanting our lives to be different and being ready to make that happen are very different things. Nothing moves until we are ready. And we need to be loved before we can be ready. #interiorjourney #readiness #move #change #unconditional #selflove For more content like this, visit my Website: https://www.integroformation.com IG:…

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March 15, 2023

How Confident are we in God's Complete Love for Us?

In what way do we consider the stakes of discerning personal vocation? Are we afraid? Sometimes, it is possible that we have anxiety and fear when we are subconsciously not confident of God's absolute, complete and unconditional love for us. Find out how this can impede our ability to discern…

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March 14, 2023

Personal Vocation: "Doing" versus "Being"

Is personal vocation really just about "doing"? On this journey towards authenticity and wholeness, we often talk about having a strong sense of who we are. It is this awareness of who we are that is so important in discerning personal vocation. Listen to the full episode: Website: https://www.becomingmepodcast.com Spotify:…

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March 10, 2023

What My Personal Interior Journey has been like

This episode is a special Instagram Live recording I did earlier this year. It documents milestones and key moments in my own interior journey into discerning and living out my personal vocation. Listen to Episode 67 now to hear my story. Listen to the full episode: Website: https://www.becomingmepodcast.com Spotify: https://spoti.fi/3u2uX9n…

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March 10, 2023

How our longing for fulfilment leads us into greater authenticity & true service

Have you ever been told that focusing too much on discerning your gifts is selfish? In this video I address the objection that choosing to focus our serving in the areas God has gifted us in is not true service, and that rather we should focus on serving “where the…

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March 6, 2023

Letting Go of All Personas to Become the Person God Calls Me to be

How do I integrate all the different aspects of myself as a whole person, while being true to my identity as a child of God? It is often terrifying to have to let go of the persona that I've been building over so many years, so that I can become…

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March 4, 2023

Dying to our Previous Identities

Are we able to die to our older identities? God's call is constantly changing and He only shows us what's the next step. Sometimes that next step can be so hard to take when it requires us to die to a previous identity, who we may have known ourselves to…

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March 2, 2023

Discerning that Next Step in our Journey

What does it mean to discern personal vocation? Sometimes, it can mean obeying a prompting despite uncertainty. Discernment is only always about the next step, which can be hard to take when it requires us to die to a previous identity or persona. Listen to the full episode: Website: https://www.becomingmepodcast.com…

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March 1, 2023

How our fears of what people think keep us from becoming our true selves

Authenticity means having the courage and love to be ourselves even when we are misunderstood and rejected by others - including those important to us. That’s why authenticity is HARD. In this video I share about how the nature of expectations that shackle us can shift through different seasons and…

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Feb. 28, 2023

What does Active Discernment of One's Personal Vocation look like?

What is it like to actively discern one's personal vocation and take the steps to follow that discernment in real life? This is a special episode of a live recording, in which I trace the milestones and turning points of my own journey into becoming a truer version of myself.…

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Feb. 25, 2023

Stop putting people up on pedestals

One of the ways we make it harder for one another to be authentic is the practice so many of us have of putting people on pedestals. When we publicly praise individuals, couples or tell children/young people how wonderful their parents are, we could be making it harder for them…

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Feb. 21, 2023

What if you're not up to "doing" anything for Lent this year?

Can you let God meet you where you REALLY are this Lent? Will you allow yourself to not DO anything for Lent if you are overwhelmed? What might an authentic Lent of interior integration look like for you? #lent #ashwednesday #authentic #interiorintegration #interiorjourney For more content like this, visit my…

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Feb. 18, 2023

What's your life script and where did it come from?

Are you aware of how your life script is driving you to be a certain kind of person, and how that script actually limits your range of responses to the circumstances you find yourself in? What might some descriptors in your script be? And where and when do you think…

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Feb. 16, 2023

Scripts sap our energy

We don’t realise just how much energy is sapped from us when we try so hard not to be our true selves. The interior journey calls us to awaken to the scripts that run our lives without our awareness. #becomingme #scripts #awaken #trueself Listen to the full episode on https://www.becomingmepodcast.com…

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Feb. 15, 2023

3 Ways Our Life Scripts Block Discernment

In this video I talk about 3 ways our life scripts block us in our discernment of our life's calling (personal vocation): 1. Limits our perspective of ourselves 2. Distorts our gifts and charisms 3. Keeps us in the business of perception management instead of being authentic For more content…

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Feb. 14, 2023

Is my response part of my Personality or just a Persona?

Many of us may have reached a point where we would already have been living our life in a certain way or have a sense of the type of person you are. How much of our personalities – if you think you are easy-going or prefer organisation – are actually…

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Feb. 8, 2023

Why we don't make progress in our discernment of personal vocation

What’s holding up our progress of discerning our life’s calling? In this video I talk about two reasons that are very common: - Lack of consistent, intentional effort (working only in bursts when in crisis) - Being unstrategic in our efforts and thus thus not having our efforts make an…

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Feb. 6, 2023

Why knowing God and Self-Knowledge must grow together

Why is it that knowledge of our Self and knowledge of God must grow together? For more content like this, visit my Website: https://www.integroformation.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/animannFB: https://www.facebook.com/integroformation Podcast: https://www.becomingmepodcast.com

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Feb. 5, 2023

Becoming Me Podcast - What triggers your scripts?

How many of us even notice how our different scripts are triggered by our environment or the people we are with? As we get more integrated, we are able to develop a deeper self-awareness of when our scripts are "switched on" and we also become more capable of reconnecting with…

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Feb. 3, 2023

Acting out of our scripts

How often has this been true for you in your life? Outwardly trying to seem connected to others while inwardly disconnected from ourselves and ultimately feeling very alone when the social event is over because we when we aren't connected to ourselves, we can't possibly truly make authentic connections with…

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Feb. 2, 2023

What You May Not Know About Personal Vocation Discernment

I share in this live recording something most people don’t know about what needs to be in place for effective discernment of personal vocation to take place: - Being able to experience God’s constant, unconditional accompaniment of us - Being able to experience our own compassionate accompaniment of ourselves Without…

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Feb. 1, 2023

Don't Be Too Quick to Correct Yourself

Most people assume that it is good to quickly correct ourselves when we find ourselves behaving poorly or "falling into sin". But what's counterintuitive is that by doing so we can actually be making it harder for us to heal the root of our poor or sinful behaviour. Watch this…

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Jan. 31, 2023

How to have boundaries with our life scripts

BECOMING ME PODCAST EP 64 When we start healing and become aware of the life scripts that bind us, it can be especially frustrating when we find ourselves succumbing to "old ways". When this inevitably happens, how can we remain serene? In this episode, I share some tips on how…

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Jan. 26, 2023

Complex Trauma and Spiritual Life

We often seek God to heal our wounds. But do we realise that our wounds also affect our ability to receive His love for us? In this video I share what I've learned about how complex trauma affects our spiritual lives. For more content like this, visit my Website: https://www.integroformation.com…

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